Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship

 Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship. Well, here I am writing a blog post about relationships again. It's been a while since I wrote something about it. I lost the content I wrote and I need to get it back. However, I haven't written something like this before. 


I will share some tips that will help you. And mistakes that we need to avoid being in a relationship. You will know why as you keep reading. These are from a 1-year relationship with my girlfriend. And if you find something similar that you work on. Let us know in the comment. 


Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship

Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship


Some of the things that are on this list. It's been in my mind for a while that I wanted to share with you. Finally, I get to do it in this post. Now, let's know why these mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship. And how it helps you in your relationship. 


Well, there is a lot that goes into a relationship. But that doesn't make it impossible to enjoy it. Because it will be worth the effort with the right person. You might work for a relationship. However, you need to determine if it's the right person. 


Avoiding these mistakes will help you to have a great time with your partner. Balance things in the relationship. Something I think all relationships should have. You can share your thoughts at the end about these mistakes. 


Some of the things on this list don't hurt the relationship quick. And it might ruin it in a long term. That will make your relationship suffer. Something we don't need if we are planning to have a relationship with someone else. 


As you read in the title. These things are actions that we do, but we need to avoid them. I know you may wonder what are these things. Well, keep reading to know and hopefully, you will find them helpful to you to keep your relationship safe and happy. 


One thing you should know. Sometimes avoiding these might take some time. That means you will need to start doing it early. Practice with your partner to be able to achieve and avoid doing it. Working on avoiding slowly is good too. 


1. Doing things alone for the relationship


I want to start with the most important thing. And this is one of the things I wanted to talk about. And that is balance the work between each other. It's not for all relationships. That is because some relationships already have it. Don't need to worry about this one. Part of the Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship. 


But some boyfriends think that they can carry everything alone. This can also be for girlfriends. However, that's not how relationships work. Although, boyfriends should do things for their girlfriends. And that's normal, but let me tell you what I mean by things. 


 There are some things that the two should work on. For example, being careful and fighting for the relationship. Following the promise and things, both setup and follow. It's only a few of many things that we need to take care of. Well, it's why I added it to this list of the mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship. 


Also, both should work on balancing things in life. The boyfriends shouldn't do it things alone. Well, it might not hurt the relationship right away. But first, make it worse to enjoy it. And it progresses as it keeps happening. 


2. Not talking about small and big problems 


Well, I can say this happened to us. But I didn't let it happen. Talking about problems in the relationship is very important. One of the Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship. It could hurt the relationship if you don't work on it. 


Some partners would love to skip talking about it. Because they don't want to bother about it. However, it's more important than you think. Talking with your partner about the problems happening in your relationship is going to make it easier to live together and enjoy the company.


Whether it's big or small. It's important and one of the mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship. And we will need to talk with our partners about every problem. Because it could get worse in the future.


.Reach an agreement about things happening in the relationship. How to tackle the problems. There are a lot of things you would need to do. And it will help you to make life much better and allow you to enjoy your relationship. That's why you need to learn about... These mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship.


3. Randomly living together 


It's one of the biggest mistakes that you will do. And that is living together randomly because it's not going to end well for both of you. If you love each other, you will set plans for both of you. Goals that you guys want to achieve. Make your life together more interesting and just live whatever. 


This is important to do it. And that's why I decided to add it to this list of mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship. I feel like a lot of people already know about this one. So, if you haven't done it. I highly recommend you do it. 


You would be able to last a long time living randomly. But it will be boring and it won't last for a long time. So, I highly recommend that you don't wait until it's too late. Start to make your life interesting being in the relationship. Avoiding other mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship.


Well, I knew this one before I even started my recent relationship. And I knew that I will need to make it interesting. Although we have goals and plans. There are also separate goals and dreams for both of us. 


4. Not developing a bond with each other 

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A relationship can last for a while without developing a bond between each other. However, it will be difficult to separate when you develop it. Because it could be easy to break up if there is not that strong bond. Not all the mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship will ruin the relationship quickly. And I said that earlier in this post. 


Developing bonds can be through different ways. Such as going on a date together. Give your partner gifts and flowers. Being romantic with your partner. Some people think it's a waste of time. But that's not true, and it's part of being in a relationship. 


It starts from the time you started the relationship. And you will need to keep doing it for as long as possible. This way, it will help you to stay together for a long time. One of the mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship. 


Well, some people need to learn how to do it. That will improve only if you start doing it. So, if you don't know anything. Just start doing it. Things will get better and better every time the both of you do it. This is how we plan to improve as well. 


5. Not including each other in things 


Last but not least. Something I find interesting and not a lot of people do it. Well, I don't know exactly how many people do it. But if you are doing this. I would love to know more about it. So, make sure to share about it in the comment after reading this post.


It's good to include each other in everything. Such as things you buy. And you don't need to buy it for your partner. But asking if they need it will help. Knowing that your partner thinks of you. That is an awesome thing to have in a relationship. 


This is something that will take some time to do it easily. Well, it depends on the partner and if you guys already have this one or not. But it's really nice to have something like this in a relationship. Makes it more enjoyable. 


Conclusion of Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship


Thank you so much for reading until this point. Sharing some of the mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship. Things that can help you to have a better relationship. Allow both of you to enjoy your time together.


Now, it's your turn to share your thoughts. And how things going with the both of you guys. If you are in a relationship Do you guys follow any of these things. Are there other things that are not on this list? It could be a help to others who read the comments. 

Mistakes you need to avoid doing being in a relationship


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25 Comments

  1. Constant communication is key, making decisions together and talking about the small problems before they get chance to become much bigger. Great post

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    1. Yeah, this is very important. Thank you for reading!

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  2. These are some good points to consider when you are in a relationship. Another one can be not listening to your partner as that is important. Thank you for sharing.

    Lauren - bournemouthgirl

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  3. It’s very important to include each other when you are in relationships. Trust is built on honest communication and not holding back on things. Learn to appreciate each other’s differences and don’t allow yourself to become too familiar with each other so you learn to not take any for granted. I enjoyed reading. 🤗

    Pastor Natalie (ExamineThisMoment)
    Letstakeamoment.com

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  4. Communication is definitely important whether you are just starting a relationship or have been married 10 years like my husband and me. We do everything together, especially when it comes to big decisions for ourselves and for our kids.

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    1. Yeah, it's very important thing to have. Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts!

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  5. Communication is so so important in relationships. You have to be open to each other because there are times there might be miscommunications or misunderstandings. Be clear with what you want and don't want :)

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    1. Yeah, we really need to focus on communication. Thank you for reading!

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  6. Each relationship is unique, but those are some great points to keep in mind. Good communication should definitely be the foundation to great relationships.

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    1. Yeah, that's true. Thank you for reading and sharing your lovely comment!

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  7. Great read. I’m working on myself as I wish to find someone soon. I will keep these points in mind as I enter into a relationship

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  8. I completely agree with these tips you shared. Sharing and trusting each other is what makes a relationship long lasting

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    1. I'm glad to know that. Thank you for reading!

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  9. Hhhmmmm...these are very good tips to know. I hope my next partner bonds with me, just like I am glad to be with her.

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  10. I read the complete post twice and I'm introspecting. I feel point number three cost me my last relationship. Although we were fond of each other, randomly living together without any future plan deterred us to grow.

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    1. I'm sorry to know that. Thank you for reading!

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  11. You’ve shared some really great points here which I think a lot of people will find beneficial! Relationships are hard and I think you’ve shared some great pointers in regards of what not to do. Thank you so much for sharing this with us, great read Xo

    Elle - ellegracedeveson.com

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  12. As they say, it needs to people to tango and in a relationship, you both need to work together for it to work. Those are some great tips to keep in mind and I believe communication is a big green factor.

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    1. Yeah, we need to work for our relationship. Thank you for reading!

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  13. I am so guilty of these. I'm especially bad at #2 not discussing problems.

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