Hello there everyone and welcome to a new blog post. We are coming to the end of this month. And I hope you guys are doing well. Today’s post will be another self-development post. I wanted to share fictional stories, but it’s a bit difficult. However, the last week of this month will have fictional stories. Here are the things that ruin your relationship and love with your partner.
I would like to talk about relationships and share something to help you keep your relationship and love going between you and your partner. It’s my second self-development post and one was stories. There will be more to come in the future. Please subscribe to my email list to stay tuned.
Things that ruin your relationship and love with your partner
You can’t keep your relationship if there is no love between you guys. And this post, I would like to focus on it in this post. However, it’s also about the relationship and how to keep going for as long as you guys want or can.
We all know there are a lot of things that could ruin relationships and loves. And what I will mention in this post is just part of it. You can combine what you knew with these to complete the picture for you. And that will help you to have a good relationship and never lasting love.
I’m sure you guys have seen a lot of breakups and reasons why they broke up. Some of the things on this post will help to deal with some of the common breakups as well. I will try to cover as many as possible to help you guys stay and love your partners forever.
The love might fade if you don’t take care of these things that ruin your relationship and love. Hopefully, you guys find this list helpful to you. And help you somehow to help you maintain a good relationship and forever lasting love.
So, it’s both relationship and love between you guys that you should focus on. If you are looking to have a bright future with your partner. It might seem so much because it is, but it’s going to be a fun journey and interesting life. Also, it will be worth it if you guys work on it well and make it interesting for you.
As a boyfriend, you have to do your parts but also I find a lot of boyfriends doing a lot and it’s not like that. It should be from both sides and you need to allow your partner also do her part in the relationship. This is also can be a problem that can ruin the love and relationship.
1. Not willing to understand each other
When we are in a relationship. We come from different backgrounds and maybe cultures. There will be habits and things that we both do. However, understanding each other is a must if you want to keep your relationship and love going.
Part of understanding each other is willing to go through these moments together and fix them. There will be an important thing that I will mention on this list of things that ruin your relationship and love that will be also part of this.
Understand each other whether it’s something you used to do. Something you have that can’t your partner can’t change. Well, there is nothing both can do, but understand each other and deal with it together.
My girlfriend first when we started our relationship. She kept studying my character and what type of person I am. That melted my heart because I’ve never been with someone who does this. I’m so happy that I met her and we are together. We try to avoid things that ruin your relationship and love and in that case is my relationship with my girlfriend.
So, if you want to keep the love bright and the relationship going. Work in some way or another to understand each other. This way, you guys will have a great future together. Otherwise, it won’t last for long and that’s not good.
2. Avoid things and problems in the relationship
Some people don’t want to deal with anything but the truth is that no place will be free of problems. You will need to be courageous to face any relationship problems and fix them. If you keep avoiding it, it will be worse and worse.
Moments you don’t like in the relationship or your partner don’t like. Don’t ignore it or avoid trying to keep yourself busy. This won’t help you at all. Focus on them and fix them as soon as possible to make your relationship fun.
Being together and living together are different things. I know this from my long-distance relationship. And living together can have other problems in the relationship. Also, problems with your partner are part of that. You need to face them and try to fix them.
When you get new problems in the future with your partner, don’t run or avoid them. That won’t help at all. Trying to escape from them just going to make them worse. And will be difficult for each other to keep the love, you know. So, it’s good to avoid things that ruin your relationship and love like this.
This is one of the things that ruin your relationship and love and it happened to some people that I know. I highly recommend you focus on it if you are not doing it already. Don’t think it will feel better to avoid them. Because it will pile up and will be difficult to deal with them and enjoy your relationship with your partner.
3. If you are not open to improvement
I don’t know about you guys, but this is a must. There are a lot of things that we have that our partner might not like, but we need to be open to improvement and change. For the sake of the relationship and love. And if you can’t improve it. You need to learn how to live with it.
This is something, my partner and I still do and it helps us a lot to understand each other and keep our love and relationship. With this, I don’t think any relationship would last for a long time. Don’t be stubborn if there is something you guys can change.
Well, it depends on your background and how you were taught in your life before you and your partner met. But, you need always to be open to improvement with things that are possible to change and can make your love and relationship more enjoyable. That’s why avoiding things that ruin your relationship and love like this will make do that.
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A habit or something that you used to do that your partner won’t like or make them uncomfortable. There is no reason for you to keep it and make your life tough for both of you. Instead, you guys can work on improving things and make perfect life the way you guys like being together.
It’s not recommended that you be that stubborn person who doesn’t want to change anything and your partner should live with you with that or leave. They can understand you if it’s not possible to change. But, if it’s possible to change. Then, I recommend you change it.
4. Not having relationship goals in the future
Next, one of the things that ruin your relationship and love is not having relationship goals in the future. And there is a situation that people get and that growing apart. And I believe that because there is no connection in the future.
If you guys want to last forever, you need to have relationship goals that you guys both can work on it both. It’s very important that you guys have them and always remind each other. Give your future meaning and something you guys can work on together.
Even if you love each other, at some time, you guys will feel disconnected, and that’s because no future goals are being together. You will feel like you are working apart instead of together. You can have your own goals for each other, but also relationship goals.
Set your own goals and also future goals for both of you. And you guys can work on your own goals while also aiming to achieve both goals. If that makes sense. It might seem difficult, but it’s not and you guys can do it together.
Loving each other is something, but if you guys don’t have anything to work on together. At some point, you will feel apart and things would feel off. From that, the love will fade, and later, the breakup would be because you guys grew apart.
Don’t forget to share things that you want to do in the future. This is also a great way to keep things interesting. And you guys can work your way together to achieve and do them. It might not be one of the things that ruin your relationship and love, but it can help to improve it.
Whether is taking pictures together in the future. Places that you guys want to go to. So many things you can together do. Working on it until you achieve make the relationship fun and a reason for you guys to fight together.
Don’t forget to write them down. This way, you won’t forget. It happened to me and changed it. So, now I’m writing all the things we say we want to do on a list. And we can do it in the future to turn them into reality.
5. Being so strict with rules
Another one that can ruin your relationship is when you are so strict with rules. This will make the relationship so complicated. Therefore, it won’t last forever because you can’t control your significant other all the time.
You can both have restricted rules, but if the one side is so strict. That will lead to complicated situations. That’s one of the things that ruin your relationship and love. Don’t make it hard on yourself with so many rules and things that don’t make sense.
Reach an agreement with your girlfriend/boyfriend with important rules that benefit both of you. This way, it keeps your relationship healthy, and the love is thriving. I’ve never tried this and will never do it because it doesn’t help at all.
Avoiding this is easy, but it depends on you. Remember that if you guys love each other. Talk about it and reach an agreement about the relationship rules and other things important. It’s not recommended to take things by yourself and act bossy because a relationship is all about both sides.
If it’s work or something like that. Then, you can take responsibility. But being in love and a relationship is way different. So, teamwork is very important in everything and not one or two things. Whatever it is, talk with your partner. This is why it’s good to avoid things that ruin your relationship and love.
Conclusion of things that ruin your relationship and love
Thank you for reading until this point. And I hope you guys found these things that ruin your relationship and love helpful somehow. There is a big list of things that we should avoid and do. However, for now, I will keep it with this number.
If you are in a relationship, do you think these also help with keeping the love and relationship or nay? Also, what else do you do to keep your love and relationship going with your partner that is not on this list?